“Love and death are the great gifts that are given to us; mostly, they are passed on unopened.”
- Rainer Maria Rilke
In this monthlong journey, we will come together in community to invite death to be our teacher and guide in living the deep questions inside our hearts. We will explore how to deepen the pathways inside of us and our communities that allow us to metabolize life and death as a continual process of initiation into the fullest expression of our aliveness.
In a culture that often avoids, hides, and numbs to the reality of death, it is easy to lose touch with the preciousness and sacredness of our lives or to feel isolated from community that supports us in living the most meaningful questions. It is easy to feel disconnected from our resilience and the natural cycles of the more-than-human world.
In our fast-moving modern lives, it is also hard to create space and time to really listen to the sacred messages coming as shouts and whispers from the landscapes of our lives and souls or honor what we find when we do listen. This journey offers a vessel or container to support you in living the "questions that have patiently waited for you, questions that have no right to go away." (David Whyte)
Together, with four other participants, you will have the space to let your inquiry support you in more fully living the life your soul has always longed to. You will get to practice your own dying as well as inhabiting the fullness of your aliveness in community ritual. We will ask questions like:
What longs to live through me?
What is ready to die, shed, be composted, or transformed?
What is the initiation that life is inviting me into right now?
Knowing I will die, how do I choose to live?
What is the fabric of culture and community that supports us in allowing life to initiate us into our fullest aliveness?
“The Living Your Dying retreat delivered me straight to the most tender corners of myself with such kindness, precision, and skill. I emerged with a newfound appreciation for how alive and well I can feel when I deeply trust the people I’m surrounded by to love and care for me.
Living Your Dying will help you lay to rest what needs to die and bring to life what new version of you wants to come forward. In the safety of this community, anything felt possible — and powerful healing emerged as a result. I feel very lucky to have been there for the magic.”
Summer Jones, MSW
Listen to a short talk to learn more about the principles of initiation and the Living Your Dying Immersion:
In this monthlong journey, you will experience...
Community Preparation
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Connect with the members of your cohort before the 3-Day Immersion
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Learn the principles and stages of initiation and how they apply to your life.
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Explore your relationship with death and initiation through interactive practices.
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Be introduced to the process and possibilities for your individual “Turn” which will take place during the 3-Day Immersion.
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Receive support to clarify your intention for your “Turn”.
3-Day In-person Immersion
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Engage in mindfulness-based embodiment practices, somatic expressive arts practices, ritual, and ceremony to explore your relationship with death and initiation.
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Wander in natural landscapes and allow the elemental world to teach you about life and death.
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Be supported through your 1.5 - 2 hour “Turn”, which will conclude with a guided death practice. The whole group will support your specific intention around the themes of death, initiation and aliveness.
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Weave a fabric of community that allows us to individually and collectively say YES! to the initiations calling us into our full aliveness.
Community Integration
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Build a conscious bridge from the 3-Day Immersion to your daily life.
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Discover ways to embody your insights from the 3-Day Immersion.
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Receive support from your cohort as you continue to reflect, compost, integrate, and live the questions over time.
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Learn integration practices and rituals to stay connected to what matters most even in the midst of a full and demanding life.
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Learn about steps you can take to prepare practically and emotionally for your own dying time and the death of loved ones
How To Register:
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About the Facilitators
Charlotte James
Charlotte is a multi-passionate human devoted to embodied expression and well-being. In her Charlottesville based practice, HeartSprings, she offers Somatic Integrative Arts, an innovative fusion of Expressive Arts, Coaching and Relational Bodywork. Her experiential approach draws on over 20 years experience and professional training in somatic and embodiment modalities including The Tamalpa Institute of Movement-based Expressive Arts Education and Therapy, Co-Active Coaches Training Institute and The Pacific Center for Awareness and Bodywork. She interweaves her studies in pre and perinatal psychology, developmental trauma, Polyvagal Therapy and death/ birth midwifery into her individual and group offerings. Charlotte is committed to all those in her life living a creative, embodied and purposeful existence.
Geoff Cox
Geoff is a certified Integral Facilitator, embodiment and leadership coach, somatic trauma bodyworker, and meditation teacher. He leads retreats and workshops about trauma-informed meditation, qi gong, and embodied leadership at UVA and across the country. While at UVA, Geoff created and facilitated three courses: "Meditation Peer Leadership," "Mindful Facilitation & Leadership," and "Nature & Mindfulness."
For this training, Geoff draws from his unique personal and professional experience related to the themes of death, initiation, and somatic transformational process. He weaves together his experience with Tibetan Buddhist death and dying practices, hospice care, death doula training, wilderness and rites of passage education, leading meditation retreats, parts work, developmental and somatic coaching, surround healing processes, and Somatic Experiencing.